LOVE / RELATIONSHIP: Brekingup is indeed hard to do, but it ain't the end of the world

Most poeple have been in relatioship, and most peoplehave experinced atleast one break-up. Some break-ups have you crying and lamentimg over what went wrong, while some others have you sighing with relief that it's finally over. Then There is the other kind of break-up; the 'we've - broken - up - but - we're still-together one.

This break-up is quite fascinating. You see, in this type of situation, you can say you're single while still retaining all benefits of being in a couple.

This usually happens when both parties realise that it's better to go their separate ways but are'nt quiet ready to let go of each other completely.

Officially you've broken-up but it'll just mean that you'll kind of being going through a break-up twice when you really decide to part ways. Why would you do that yourself?

The other situation would be one party is desperately tryin to hang on while the other is just dying to move on. This situation cab be anoying as you dont want to be mean but you can't be expected to spend as much time with your ex as you used to when you were going out! In this case, you may have to be a bit brutal and cut off all communication; at least for a while.

How else would you know what else the world has to offer you? May be there is someone better for you out there. If you just spend your time waiting for your ex to 'realise' that you're the one for you then may have wasted a lot of opportunities ..... and you don't want that.

Whatever the case may be, the best thing to do is to suck it up and just get on with your life........... or help the other person realise that he or she needs to get on with her life.

Breakin-up is indeed hard to do, but it ain'nt the end of the world! Get out there and have fun. The single life has plenty offer..........